Keep your personal and professional life separate.
Unless you’re Mormon. Then talk extensively about the missionaries you know, the people in your ward, and the religion classes you’re taking.
Unless you’re straight. Then talk extensively about the people you date and are attracted to.
Unless you’re cisgender. Then talk about all the just girly things all the time.
But god forbid you be a queer, trans, ex-Mormon and even hint at your existence.
That shit just makes people uncomfortable.